Private planner

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What feels right today?

Choose our next date.

Pick a city and what we want to do, then compare the choices.

Places in this view.
Choose a cuisine or dish
About these choices

What should we choose next?

Compare our saved tastes and the details we checked.

Next Date compares overall fit. Explore puts novelty first. Food filters compare that cuisine across the city, rather than narrowing a mode.

Each choice keeps its catches visible.

How suggestions are checked

What has to be true before we trust a suggestion

1 · Start with our evidence
Next Date compares all four categories using our saved tastes and structured date feedback. Explore remains novelty-first; Craving starts with food; Casual keeps the commitment low; Boba ranks the tea itself using Boba-specific evidence.

2 · Check the right details
For restaurant dates, we verify the current menu, whether sitting close is realistic, and anything that could make conversation hard. For to-go tea dates, we verify the exact branch and tea menu; seating and room noise are not Boba ranking factors.

Activity ideas
Each idea keeps its research status inside the choice. Operation, logistics, useful pictures, and a grounded reason for both of us must be complete before it can enter Plan.

3 · Keep the catches
Popularity never erases a loud room, an uncertain seat, or a menu that does not actually have what we want.

4 · Check again before we go
Menus and logistics get a fresh look within seven days of booking. What happened on the date matters more than any review.

A shared queue

For Us

Keep the places that caught our attention in the order we choose. Research helps us compare; it never rearranges this list.

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Our priority

Move places up or down whenever we want.

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Side by Side Finds

Promising discoveries wait here until the other partner approves or passes them.

Our dates

The places we remember, and why.

What we’re learning

What both partners actually enjoy.

Small details from our dates make the next choice better.

How suggestions use our tastes
the primary partner’s tastes usually lead our restaurant choice.

the other partner still needs a good route at the table. Side by Side remembers both of us in full.

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What keeps coming back

Our repeat places and dishes, counted from the dates we saved.

How we know

What we checked, and what we still need to ask.

These links back up the practical details. Our own experience always matters more.

Our planner lives on this device

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How does each of us remember it?

both partners can remember the same date differently. Either of us can come back and add or adjust a memory.

Dishes & picture · optional
What did we order?

Add each dish separately so both partners can remember different reactions.

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